When you are getting married, there are all kinds of things that you need to think about. One of them is whether or not you and your spouse are both going to be wearing wedding bands. Once you have decided that, it's time to start looking at bands. When it comes to wedding bands, there are several options open to you. 

Wedding Sets

One thing that you can do is to buy a full wedding set. A wedding set generally has an engagement ring, a wedding band that matches that ring, and a wedding band that is for the other person. In the past, wedding sets have been geared towards a man/woman wedding, so the engagement ring and matching wedding band tend to be more delicate and "feminine", with the other wedding band more "masculine". However, that has changed because styles have changed and because there are many same-sex couples getting married as well. So, while the sets still tend to come with an engagement ring with a matching wedding band, and an additional wedding band that matches or complements the first ring, they aren't necessarily broken down into a masculine style and a feminine style. 

Individual Bands

Another option is for you and your future spouse to find bands that you like and that mean something to you and to have those be your wedding bands. After all, just about any ring can be your wedding band. There isn't any law that says only certain rings can be wedding bands and if those rings aren't used the wedding isn't going to be valid. If you and your partner can't find a set that works for you, for whatever reason, then you can start looking for rings that will work for you. The nice thing about going with individual bands is that you can each go with a style that you like and one that makes you happy instead of compromising on something that you both think is acceptable. You want your wedding bands to be something that sparks joy and makes you feel good. 

Getting married is a huge step. You want every part of the day to go well. Part of doing that is making sure that you have wedding bands that are perfect for you and your partner. When you are looking at wedding bands, you have all kinds of options, including what kind of material the ring is made of and what kind of stones are in it.